**Title:** 🔒 Too Secure? Can't Even Talk to Myself

[mentamortem]

Body:

Hey folks,

First off — love the app. Truly. Nothing says "secure messaging" like sending a message and not knowing if even I sent it.

But I think we've gone too far.

Problem:

I tried messaging myself as a reminder. The message was end-to-end encrypted. Cool. Then I forgot the password, the device, and possibly my own identity. Now even I can't read my own thoughts.

Steps to Reproduce:

1. Open chat with self (because friends are overrated).
2. Send “Buy milk”.
3. Forget password, reinstall app.
4. Cry in front of fridge.

Expected Behavior:

Receive a gentle reminder to buy milk.

Actual Behavior:

Receive an encrypted block of sadness. Milk not bought. Emotional damage caused.

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Suggested Fixes:

• Add a "Remind me later, but securely" mode.
• Build in a therapy chatbot for when I forget all my secrets.
• Optional: Self-destruct button for fridge contents.

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Thanks for keeping our chats so safe. So safe, in fact, that not even the sender can ever be sure they existed.