Improve wrapper handling and info

## Elevator Pitch

Long chains of wrappers are fairly opaque. Cycles can crash the kernel or client.

## Motivation

https://github.com/jupyrdf/ipyforcegraph/pull/131#discussion_r1322089328

## Design Ideas

- change the model _again_ to be more like `ipyelk`'s `Pipeline` model?
- do cycle detection?
  - relatively hard