Misc dependency upgrades

[jcgruenhage]

Upgrades nearly all dependencies, separated into a few chunks:

• socket2: Required for Rust 1.64+, because of Implement network primitives with ideal Rust layout, not C system layout rust-lang/rust#78802
• tokio: Tokio now has a stable release, let's use that. Also required updating trust-dns-resoler, and in the dpendency chain we also had failure replaced with anyhow/thiserror, so I've also done that for bandwhich here.
• tui and crossterm
• pnet and ipnetwork
• everything that was possible to upgrade without actually touching the code.

I've skipped updating procfs for now, because the API change here wasn't as straight-forward to port as the rest.

This fixes #263.

Only blocker right now: hughesac/packet_builder#5

[jounathaen]

I can confirm, that this fixes #263
Hint for people that need a hotfix for a working bandwhich version:

cargo install --git https://github.com/jcgruenhage/bandwhich --branch=upgrades-2023-04-11

[stappersg]

After doing

git remote add jcgruenhage https://github.com/jcgruenhage/bandwhich
git fetch jcgruenhage
git checkout upgrades-2023-04-11

I was able to do

cargo build

succesfully.

[colemickens]

It'd be great to see this merged in some form. This tool is unusable on all my computers without these bumps.

[cyqsimon]

See #275

[jounathaen]

I'm confused now. Why is this PR closed? Isn't it exactly in line with what you wrote in #275 that "PRs are more than welcome though"?