Extract JFR recording stream configuration into JfrMeterBinder

[schiemon]

This PR introduces JfrMeterBinder to unify RecordingStream configuration and JFR event handler registration for JFR-backed MeterBinders.

JfrMeterBinder was put into an newly added micrometer-java17 module as RecodingStream was introduced in Java 14 and Java 17 is the next-in-line LTS version.

This is also pre-work for #7384 in which we are going to introduce JvmSafepointMetrics, after VirtualThreadMetrics the second JfrMeterBinder in Micrometer.

[schiemon]

I am intentionally not simply handing over the RecordingStream or EventStream as I don't want to allow the implementation to start or close the stream.

[jonatan-ivanov]

@shakuzen and I need to discuss if we want to generalize the JFR binders in the next minor release. I think we should but I'm in favor of a simpler approach, like the code you copied in this PR: main...jonatan-ivanov:micrometer:jfr-binder

[schiemon]

@shakuzen and I need to discuss if we want to generalize the JFR binders in the next minor release.

Alright, please notify me with your decision when you are ready 👍

but I'm in favor of a simpler approach, like the code you copied in this PR: main...jonatan-ivanov:micrometer:jfr-binder

Personally, I also like that it is simple but dislike that it leaks the RecordingStream to the implementation because then, in principle, the implementation could start or stop and reconfigure the stream. IMHO the JfrBinder should completely own the stream. But again, please let me know how you guys decide so I can move on with this one and #7384

[schiemon]

@jonatan-ivanov friendly bump :)