fix(runtime): allow slow terminal status responses

[Yevanchen]

Summary

• let command terminal RPCs use the existing one-second delivery deadline
• retain immediate retries for explicit transport failures
• keep run terminal retry timing unchanged

Root cause

Each command terminal attempt was aborted after 250ms even though the API could commit the update shortly afterward, causing a false driver failure after a successful run.

Verification

• bun test tests/driver-runtime-boundary-dispatcher.test.ts
• bun run tc
• bun run check reached 1201 passing tests; macOS process watchdog and /var path-alias tests failed outside this change

No deployment. Companion mosoo submodule pin PR follows.